Gender Identity does not exist: Explaining Transgender 3

Brazilian travesti porn star Lisa Lawer, once a hot babe, now a good-looking, married,  guy. ‘Gender Identity’ much?

In the West, both ‘gay’ and ‘transgender’ activists have spent 50 years trying to persuade us all that sexual orientation and so-called ‘gender identity’ are two totally separate things, but this is a lie. Boys become girly to attract men and girls become manly to attract women. That’s all there is to it.

Ah, you say, what about those ‘transgender’ women who are attracted to women? What about that then?

These are just as much informed by their sex drive, but in this case, their attraction is to themselves, as women, This is called autogynephilia. It is defined as ‘a man’s propensity to become sexually aroused at the thought or image of himself as a woman.’

They appear to be women because they are the women of their own dreams — well, erotic fantasies, anyway. Unsurprisingly, they retain a heteronormative male attraction to women. (You can’t be autogynephilic without being gynephilic first.)

Masculine Gays?

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This is what you think is masculine? Rly? Specsavers, you need

Perhaps you scream in desperation, ‘What about  masculine gay men? I’m sure I met one once!’ This is a function of social intolerance. Many homosexual men in the West pretend to be masculine and spend a lot of effort trying to appear as butch and buff as they can. This is partly in order to fit in to an intolerant society. But the fact is, if you’re seeking to be plunged by a thick hard length, you’re not masculine; and if you only do the plunging, you’re not really homosexual.

The other reason, as I explained here,  is that in the West today, gays are expected to have sex with each other. Since they are

Juno Dawson, former gay guy, now transsexual

themselves only attracted to masculinity, this social expectation leads them to become masculine-appearing, in order to attract other gay men doing the same thing. As one transsexual friend said to me ‘Gays are women pretending to be men in order to have sex with other women pretending to be men.’

As this excellent piece by formerly gay, now trans author Juno Dawson confirms, most ‘gay men’ are actually transsexuals manqué. Their masculinity is just a facade.

Asia: Reality-check

In Southeast Asia, in countries like Thailand, the Philippines and elsewhere, Gender Non-Conforming, (GNC) children are given both a developmental pathway (by transitioning) and a social role. But to do this they need to conform to the local cultural expectations. These reinforce the link between gender and sexual role.

Asian cultures are partially matriarchal, so this tends not to be applied in a harsh or judgemental way. Instead, GNC boys are understood to be both homosexual and girly; their transsexual behaviour is a function of their nascent homosexuality.

GNC individuals who fit into the autogynephilic profile are also subject to cultural expectations. These are that they will, as young transwomen, appear to be beautiful, act in a feminine manner and seek male partners. This is why Dr Sam Winter found only 0.3 percent of respondents agreeing that they were attracted to women in his large survey. Liking women, as a transwoman, would be far more challenging to society there than a male liking other males, or a female liking other females.

Yes, this does mitigate against their freedom, but at the same time, in collectivist, powerfully family-oriented cultures such as are found in southeast Asia, the trade-off is positive for the young GNC person. They are accepted, usually, by those around them. (Fathers can be hostile but mothers and sisters are usually supportive; since these cultures have domestic matriarchy, where women are in authority in the home, the children are somewhat protected from masculine opprobrium.)

What does this have to do with the West? Well, here the drive towards transgender is NOT happening in the context of a powerful, supportive family system, as it does in Asia. Nor is there the wider, sympathetic ‘beki’ culture that I describe here. The nuclear family itself is under existential threat in the West and this means that other systems, largely functions of the State, are being drawn in. This is not, in my opinion, a good idea; it smacks more of Iran than southeast Asia. It reeks of coercion for political reasons, rather than love and respect.

The ‘transgender movement’

I have become deeply distrusting of the ‘transgender movement’ for its clear attempts to coerce parents and vulnerable children into following a transitioning route at too early an age, and to persuade the State to provide drastic surgical interventions, more or less on demand, to people too young to understand the gravity of the decisions they are taking — or that are being taken on their behalf.

This is not Asia or South America, where a person can have numerous presentations throughout their lives and still be socially accepted. Particularly because we have allowed ‘Identity Politics’ to become ascendant over family, it is not easy, in the West, to change and especially not to desist from a trans expression.

To do so requires us to leave an ‘identity group’ that we have become a part of and that has supported us; we lose all the status we gained from it and worse, it may become hostile to us. This hostility is often seen, directed by ‘trans activists’ at outspoken desisters — or indeed anyone who challenges their glib and specious narrative (voir Blaire White.)

Horror stories

We are today finding horror-story after horror story, especially from young women who were persuaded that they were trans far too young and have undergone serious, life changing surgeries which can NEVER be undone. To allow a child to set out on a pathway that is intended to lead to sterility and surgical mutilations is clearly irresponsible and a dereliction of our duty of care — dereliction which is being actively promoted by so-called ‘trans activists’.

Desistance and the damage of trans activism

Outside the West, desistance is commonplace. Frequently, once a transwomen is past her early 30’s, she will revert to a masculine presentation. Partly this is to do with her looks but also, to but it bluntly, it is far easier for a gay man to get sex in these cultures than a transwoman. If a transwoman has not found a life partner by that stage, pressure to desist increases.

Transsexuals will often revert to being gay men. Autogynephiles, in a reversal of the common Western pattern, may become heterosexual men. Sometimes they will get married and have children.

A classic example this would be former Brazilian travesti

lisa lawer gender identity
Lisa in her glory days. Gotta admit, she was hot. By the way, this should torpedo the idea that the typical Western autogynephile, not known for erm, feminine beauty, is found all over the world. AGPs can indeed be gorgeous — but are rarely petite.

(transgender) star of over 80 porn movies, Lisa Lawer. After a career in which it is fair to say she left no sexual stone unturned, she got religion, gave up being a girl and married a distant cousin. When last I heard, she was a father.

So what should all this tell you? Well just this: the oft-repeated claim that ‘sexual orientation and “gender identity” are separate’ is a blatant, barefaced lie.

Gender presentation is a direct function of sex drive. Homosexual males are naturally feminine and, where circumstances allow, they will present as women in order to be attractive to men. These are the classic transsexual or Blanchard HomoSexual Transsexual — so feminine that they have real difficulty living as men.

Autogynephiles will present as women because they get a powerful sexual hit just from doing so. It’s that simple. Every time a transvestite AGP uses a women’s toilet, she gets sexual gratification. Every time she walks past a mirror, the same. Every time someone calls her ‘she’, it’s another sexualised reward.

Gender Identity is a big fat lie

‘Gender Identity’ is a canard. It doesn’t exist. Nobody has one, outside of their sexual desires. Men look masculine to attract women; homosexual men in the West look masculine to attract women pretending to be men; in Asia they look feminine to attract other gays (at least it’s logical).

Dany Evangelista transsexual
Another travesti, and contemporary of Ms Lawer, Dany Evangelista. Dany is transsexual; notice how delicate her features are and how slightly built she is (she’s 5’3″) Included for sheer prurience.

Transsexuals look like women to attract men and autogynephiles look like women because of the powerful sexual reward they get from performing as and even being accepted as such. All of these are absolutely rooted in sex.

While female sex drive differs from male, the same holds true. Women adopt feminine ‘gender stereotypes’ in order to ‘make themselves attractive’ — to men. Conventional lesbians adopt masculine stereotypes to attract women. ‘Lipstick lesbians’ are the equivalent of the New Gay Man — hiding in plain sight and hoping to meet someone else playing the same game.

All of these presentations are driven by sex and specifically, whom we wish to have sex with. This causes us to adopt a ‘gender expression’ that will socially conform to this, in order that we might succeed in attracting our desired partner.

Notions of pre-existing ‘gender identity’, alleged to exist outwith sexuality, are pie-in-the-sky without a shred of actual evidence to support them. Worse, they are a politically-inspired dogma, promulgated by those who benefit from others’ belief in it.

Gender is real; it is not a social construct that can be dispensed with at our whim, or the will of others. Nor is it something that can just be chosen. It depends on our sexuality and that is, essentially, innate. We don’t choose whom we are attracted to; we just are. Whom we are attracted to informs how we appear to others and that is gender.

The more often the lies of ‘gender identity’ and  that ‘gender and sexuality are unrelated’ are repeated, the more human disasters there will be, the more unnecessary mutilations, ruined lives and suicides. The sheer irresponsibility of ‘trans activists’ in this is staggering.

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5 thoughts on “Gender Identity does not exist: Explaining Transgender 3”

  1. Popped back on this site again. I’ve been obsessively diving into the topic of Autogynephilia lately.

    One thing I will say is I’m becoming convinced that Autogynephilia exists a lot within the as you say homosexual transsexuals or primary.

    I have several friends in this group and they often staring in mirrors, obsessed with getting their nails done and looking more and more hyper feminine. This is even after they are getting plenty of cock or are one hormones with testosterone blockers with lower libido. They often tell me they aren’t doing it for men or sex.

    Perhaps they started out acting that way by instinct in order to be more attractive to men they have a crush on and then later on they became attached to the behavior even though they aren’t doing it directly to get a man. This includes obsession with makeup, hair feminine manners, nails and more. This could be similar to an autogynephilic person who does these things to get their high or sexual thrills when younger, but then later on the high wears off and they get attached to the behavior and continue to do it.

    A interesting read I found is Anne Lawrence “Men Trapped in Men’s bodies” I think she has a lot better direct perspective on the Autogynephilia topic than Blanchard. There is one Chapter in the book called “Sex with Men”.

    She talks about how the Blanchard studies showed that A segment of Autogynephilic males are attracted to the validation from being treated like a lady by a man and getting the ultimate reward of having sex as a lady when getting fucked in the ass by a man. Many of these transsexuals or MTFs go on and even date and marry men.

    She also has a section where she thinks that the Autogynephilic transwomen seek men to achieve their fantasy of being a heteronormative woman and avoid the taboo of being a lesbian(A fake lesbian actually) etc. Perhaps this is what is happening as you describe to this group in Asia. They conform to the heteronormative behavior of seeking men to date and validate their femininity.

    But I also believe that this is bisexual and to engage or date men they have to have some attraction to men to some degree and its not purely for their feminine fantasy. Or they are attracted to a man who acts or looks a certain way that helps validate their feminine fantasy.

    In the book she does point to some studies where researchers are pointing to the idea that young males have these cross gender fantasies and thoughts which is a gender dysphoria and the autogynephilic erotic element is a side effect of it. Many of the autogynephilic transwomen hold this belief. Some even claim the testosterone caused them to have the erotic component.

    So are you agreeing that having Autogynephilia can be a legitimate path to transition to female medically? Are you suggesting a different path ?

    One thing I will say is that If you call a homosexual transssexual a gay faggot boy who is just acting like a woman to get fucked by men, he/she will often just shrug it off and even laugh.

    If you call an Autogynephilic transwoman an Autogynephilic they can get aggressive and I would worry about them getting violent. Especially the older masculine type ones.

    1. Hi Pri

      First, thank you for your detailed and considered post. I’m glad you came back!

      Regarding make-up and mirrors, it’s pretty clear that Blanchard was conservative in his estimate of the prevalence of AGP amongst HSTS, at 15%. I should say that pretty much all of them exhibit it. I don’t think there was anything unprofessional about this; however I have spoken to a couple of his original respondents who told me that the details of his questionnaire were widely known and it was believed that an admission of autogynephilic behaviour would mean a rejection — remember that Blanchard was principally assessing candidates for Genital Reconstruction Surgery.

      That last tells you two things: first, that he was talking to a small percentage of the HSTS (I’ll use his terms here) because very few are interested in losing the joystick. Second, many of his respondents were giving rehearsed answers. I think B did a fantastic job, by the way, considering how much AGPs lie. About everything!

      Yes no mirror or shop window may be passed, no hair be unfiddled-with, no make-up not incessantly patched. And there is no question that HSTS get autogynephilic pleasure from sex. I don’t know if you have tried, but believe me, the first time you screw an HSTS in front of a mirror, you’ll know what I am talking about.(It’s worth the effort.)

      Transsexuals (Blanchard HSTS) transition to be more girly to be more attractive to men. It is really that simple. Yes they are obsessed with affirmation. Having had relationships with both transsexuals and AGP, however, I can tell you that the subjective feeling is totally different. Nowadays I only date girls whom I can be pretty sure are transsexual not AGP, from first meeting.

      Anne Lawrence is herself, of course, AGP and is one of those rare delights — she is honest about it. Her book, as you say is most enlightening and really, now that Blanchard has moved into other fields, she is the leading researcher into AGP today. Her contribution is immense and I agree — mostly, she’s right.

      ‘I also believe that this is bisexual and to engage or date men they have to have some attraction to men to some degree and its not purely for their feminine fantasy. Or they are attracted to a man who acts or looks a certain way that helps validate their feminine fantasy’ — this is ‘pseudo-bisexualism’ in Blanchard. To explain this, think of the AGP as having created a second, pseudo-feminine personality. This, to the AGP, is a woman. Therefore it is heteronormative for this personality to be attracted to and engage in, sex with men. A lot of AGPs are viscerally homophobic; they won’t even consider sex with a male unless they are ‘en femme’.

      (Actually, IMO a statement that ‘I couldn’t have sex with men before I transitioned’ is a tell for AGP.)

      Agreed, transsexuals are blasé about their personal histories. They often make jokes about it. AGPs, however, frequently respond with a Narcissistic Rage Attack and yes, some would definitely get violent.

      Re the ‘older masculine type’, this is the classic Western AGP. There is little resemblance between this and the most common Asian profile. They respond aggressively because to question their pathway is to challenge (rightly) their claim to be ‘real women’. And they are men. They grew up as men. They socialised as men. You can take all the hormones and have all the surgeries you like, but if what you learned was how to be a man, then that is what you will be. You cannot unlearn deep conditioning like this. It’s akin to the reasons why it is so hard to decondition children raised in religious cults, except more so. Yes they definitely do get violent and there is public record of prominent AGPs issuing threats of violence to critics.

      Transsexuals (HSTS) are also capable of violence but not for those reasons. Do not cheat on one, you might end up with your John Thomas in your hand — and not in a good way.

      I have received threats myself and AGPs have moved to try to deplatform me, simply for pointing out that the science is fully supportive of Blanchard; that is the main reason I focus on my blog. I might not have the readership here, but they cannot silence me, and my numbers are growing.

      Western profile AGPs are men. That simple.

    2. Haha missed the question in there.

      ‘So are you agreeing that having Autogynephilia can be a legitimate path to transition to female medically? Are you suggesting a different path ?’

      OK. Well, they don’t transition to female, but I know what you mean. I am a libertarian, so I believe that your body is your own, to do with as you will, so long as this does not impinge on the right of others to the same freedoms. Autogynephilia is therefore as good a reason to ‘transition’ as any other.

      However, there is the question of ‘who pays?’ You said ‘medically’ so I would say, given that HRT is cheap and safe, I’m fine with that. It costs around 60-80 Euros a month for a serious transitioning regime; a maintenance one, far less.I am fairly OK with that being funded socially or by insurance.

      Genital Reconstruction Surgery, however, is a cosmetic procedure and it is definitely NOT a sex change. If we are arguing that cosmetic procedures are required in order to alleviate psychological anguish (which is largely a function of culture) then breast augmentation is much more effective and far less dangerous. Certainly in Asia, a minute number of transwomen undergo GRS but nearly all will have breast augmentation if they can.

      Given that, I really can’t say I agree that GRS should be socially funded, for anyone. By all means, go and have it, but you pay for it. As for the argument that ‘GRS is lifesaving because without it I’ll commit suicide,’ I say, ‘Bullshit, you pull the trigger, it’s on you, not the rest of us’. And anyway the stats prove the lie — suicide rates go UP after GRS or even orchidectomy (removal of testes.)

    1. Hi C.J. Thank you for that.

      Professor J Michael Bailey is a thoroughly decent man, a serious and committed scientist.I reviewed his book, The Men Who Would Be Queen HERE . Bailey has great integrity as an academic, as a scientist and as a man. Like me he is a supporter of transsexuals, and also like me, he does not stand for bullshit, nor suffer fools gladly. I have spoken to him twice and we have exchanged emails. He is on the side of the angels.

      I discussed the attacks on him, which were a scandalous disgrace, in the book review. Fortunately, Andrea James, a most unpleasant character, who was one of the main orchestrators of the campaign, has dropped from view. While the other, Lynn Conway, continues to maintain a site (on her former University webspace!) she also seems to have withdrawn. McCloskey’s current position I do not know about.

      The harpies — there’s no other suitable word — who tried to ruin Bailey, are the worst kind of liars and personal attackers. They are a disgrace and they do no service at all to transsexuals — or, for that matter, transvestite autogynephiles.

      There are areas in which I don’t think Blanchard is universally accurate, but it is essentially so, across the globe. His description of HSTS is completely accurate. The description of autogynephiles is accurate for the sample, at the time it was taken however, while autogynephilia does definitely occur in other cultures, it appears somewhat different due to cultural influence.

      Thank you for this; I might bump this up by republishing the review.

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