Autogynephilic and HomoSexual MtF in Asia
All male-to-feminine (MtF) trans are EITHER homosexual (exclusively attracted to men from childhood) or non-homosexual (not exclusively attracted to men from childhood.) The latter are commonly known as autogynephilic. This distinction is obvious and has been observed since the 19th century. It is recognised as fundamental by all serious scientists working in the field.
Homosexual Transsexuals (HSTS) exhibit a cluster of trait characteristics in addition to their sexual desire for men. They tend to be small, delicately built, light for their height, naturally feminine and neotenous. They have intense difficulty learning to be masculine, if they ever do. Non-homosexual trans exhibit no such clustering; in fact they conform to the averages for men of their ethnicity and are attracted to women.
The explanation for HSTS is easy and has never been disputed: they desire men and are feminine, so to attract men, whom they know to be attracted to femininity, they make themselves more fe
Hi Rod.
Good day!
I really enjoy reading your opinions and articles regarding the situations of “bekis” hsts or agp here in Philippines. kudos for that, keep going.
But are you aware of the recent news of transwomen(agp perhaps, not sure) being inlove with “tomboys” or straight girls to the point of actually concieving with her? even theyre inlove, they didnt make themselves present “masculine” in any way tho. maybe some, those who are inlove with straight girls.
the comments in social media range from being just ok, to far cringey ignorant stuff like “its not sinful beki and tomboy inlove with eachother bc of penis and vagina” and “tomboy beki inlove with one another better bc they can have children” (well, theres adoption, why be too ignorant to the point of making hsts transwomen who are inlove with natal men feel bad haha)
also, i heard some news of transwomen in philippines “detransitioning” and some people even praising them omg.
Better check social media, Rod. As an hsts filipino transgirl, lots of plain cringey stuff out there worth mentioning hehe.
Hi geepeecutee
Good day! Thank you for your support and for this information. I no longer have a FB account (long story) but I do have a presence on Twitter and various other media.
Yes, I have come across these marriages to tomboys and straight girls before, although mainly from Thailand. Actually I was blissfully unaware that there even were AGP transwomen in the Phils till I met someone who, umm seemed a little odd — let’s say, uncommonly masculine for a TS (I thought). Then her friends told me that she serially dated women and usually had a different girlfriend every month, I was wasting my time with her hahaha…that explained a lot. So I began to look around more deeply and yup. Place is full of them.
I absolutely do not judge at all. It’s not in my nature anyway. I do find that the aggressiveness characteristic of Western AGPs grates on me. I’m like, ‘You want me to treat you as a woman, and you’re being more rude and offensive than I’d permit a man to be. You what?’ But in the Phils it’s just all so much more gentle.
I agree with you, adoption is definitely an option and I know transgirls there who have done just that — and are doing OK. And gosh, detransition. I remember a friend, well more than a friend, said to me once that she would introduce me to her friends, who were both former pageant queens (as she was). I was quite excited at the prospect, but what turned up was 2 guys in their mid thirties! One was HS the other AGP. I think my friend was winding me up. She said it was not that uncommon. The two detransitioned friends were managers in BPO and it was one of the conditions… they had to be guys. That was a few years ago and I think it’s better now … certainly I know girls now who are managing departments in BPO, who are TS, and there’s no way they’re cutting their hair or losing the pencil skirts!
Please feel free to feed me info that you think I might find interesting and, if you’d like to write me an article, about 1000 words or so, on any relevant topic, I’d love to consider publication.
I’ll be back in the Phils at the beginning of December, I can’t wait!
Take Care
Rod
But….
it’s just sad how people found this new way to make us, hsts transwomen feel BAD for being attracted to (born)men 🙁 I really don’t care if some of my trans-sisters are attracted to girls/tomboys or what, but it’s just those judgemental people making a big deal about how that penis-vagina thingy is better than same sex blahblahblah when I come around these stories in social media T___T
About that BPO thing…well, I do really hope the Anti-Discrimination Bill here in the Philippines will go well, and this might mean, a better opportunity for us ^_^
Hi Geepeecutie
I agree. I have been coming to the Phils for many years now and I did think the situation was getting better; but maybe I was misreading it. As regards the sex…well, however two people who love each other satisfy each other is nobody else’s damn business in the first place, and in the second, isn’t love supposed to be the highest of all? I, with respect, find it somewhat contradictory when Christians — for whom ‘God is love’ — then put human limitations on what love is allowed to be. (If God is love, then I am aboard with that; it’s where the interpretations of men come in that I have a problem.)
I personally think that a lot of the hostility shown by men towards HSTS (less so AGPs) is because they are afraid of their own attraction to them. The fact is that HSTS are often simply gorgeous, far more beautiful than the average for women in their population. That alone makes them stand out. These guys are weak at the knees with desire but suppressing it. Then the fact is that a lot of women — and I know, because I have discussed this — resent the fact that so many HSTS are as attractive as they are — like ‘they have no business being that gorgeous!’
I hope for much better opportunities for you. I am not ashamed to say that transpinay HSTS are just lovely people; actually AGPs can be very agreeable too, though they are not the same. Such nice individuals should not be made to suffer for being who they are.
Re the penis/vagina thingy … well, you and I both know that making love to an HSTS requires the man to have great sensitivity and awareness of the girl’s feelings, especially if she is inexperienced. But when it works, it’s certainly as lovely as any other sex. People should not knock what they have not tried.
Take Care
Rod