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Sexual terminology: what you should know.

Sexual terminology: what you should know. 0003-20170312_malolos-mr-lady_0119-300x170
A bevy of ladyboy beauties competing in Malolos, Philippines. Not one of these is bucking the gender binary. They just want to be girls and have fun. And how they do brighten the place up. Pic: Rod Fleming

Sexual terminology has become a major issue, or well, at least one that should raise a laugh.

So let’s clear it up, shall we?

Physical Sex:

Either male or female, defined at conception. This is immutable and cannot be changed.

Male: an individual specimen with XY chromosomes. Will normally have a penis and testicles.

Female: as above, but with XX chromosomes. Will normally have a vagina, clitoris, ovaries and breasts (in adulthood.)

Gender

Masculine: that set of behaviours and apparel generally considered consistent with male sex in a given culture.

Feminine, as above, consistent with female sex.

Man: a person born male with masculine gender.

Woman: a person born female with feminine gender.

Gender Non-Conforming (GNC)

General term indicating a person who presents in a gender ‘expression’ at variance with his/her birth sex. Almost all of snowflake culture falls into this category, but gays and lesbians do too, since their gender behaviour (who they sleep with) is at variance with social expectations for their birth sex. All legitimately trans people are by definition GNC.

Trans:

General prefix to describe a GNC person who obviously presents in a gender not consistent with his/her birth sex. This includes crossdressers etc.

Transgender: Vague blanket term used as a political catch-all instead of GNC. (Which is more accurate.) Essentially meaningless today, it once meant ‘not quite transsexual’.

Transwoman: a male-born trans person.

Transman: a female-born trans person

(Please note, it is always ‘transwoman’ or ‘transman’, not ‘trans woman’ or ‘trans man’. )

Transsexual:

A specific term referring to a subset of transwomen. She is a person born male, who is attracted to men, is generally slight, light in build, shorter than average, with neotenous features. They are often almost unfeasibly feminine as children and young adults. A transsexual, by definition, appears as a woman. She almost certainly takes hormones and has other procedures, including surgery, to make her appear more feminine. Transsexual prevalence is very much shaped by social tolerance levels. Many are found in Asia, few indeed in the West. She lives full-time as a woman but is chromosomally and biologically male. She is therefore closely related to feminine gay men (see below.).

Transvestite: a cross-dresser; that is, a person who is born one sex but wears clothing etc consistent with the other. These are mostly men. They are not transsexuals.

Genital Reconstruction Surgery (GRS)

The operation or operations required to turn the external genitalia of one sex into a cosmetic representation of the other. The success of these procedures ranges from highly convincing to Road Traffic Accident and the physical success from numb to orgasmic. While cosmetic vagina construction techniques seem well advanced, certainly in terms of appearance, phalloplasty is woefully inadequate, at best ‘creating something that might be mistaken for a penis on the other side of a dark room’.

Orientations

Homosexual man (gay): Can be feminine or masculine. Most prefer to be penetrated. Many learn to enjoy penetrating because it is only fair. So-called ‘gay tops’ are vanishingly rare and are likely to be MSM.

Men who have Sex with Men (MSM): These are not homosexual and do not enjoy being penetrated. However, they may penetrate gay men for money or even because they like anal sex and there are no willing women or trannies handy.

Note: not all gays like to be penetrated, either because of fear of disease or of the pain. However, gays habitually lie about this too, since admitting to enjoying being anally penetrated may incur opprobrium.

Lesbian: Any woman who desires and seeks out women for sex. Note, however, that it is necessary to have been born with XX chromosomes to be a lesbian! Recent research suggests that most women are somewhat lesbian at some part of their lives.

Bisexual (Western): A person openly attracted both to men and women. Rare, but covert bisexuals are probably less so. More common amongst women than men, possibly for socio-cultural reasons. Pseudo-bisexualism is a function of autogynephilia.

Generic terms for trans people

Tranny: a trans person, usually a transwoman. While some object to the term, others embrace it wholeheartedly. They tend to be the ones with a better sense of humour.

Shemale: a porn-industry term for a pre-operative transwoman (ie retaining a penis.) Again, some, especially Snowflakes and Western autogynephiles, reject it, others embrace it. Best to ask.

Ladyboy: generic term for any GNC person of Asian origin. Nearly all such people, when speaking English, will use the term to describe themselves. Snowflakes and Western profile AGPs often attack its use, ignoring the fact that millions self-identify as such. Ho hum.

Gender

Cis: redundant pejorative to describe anyone who is not GNC — that is, who is a man or a woman. Do not use this word, it is offensive.

Transvestite homosexual (gay) a homosexual male who cross-dresses to attract partners and socialise. Typically his cross-dressing is only part-time and he probably does not take hormones. However in the appropriate cultures, this person might become transsexual, especially if ‘passable’ as a woman.

Masochistic Emasculation Fetish (MEF).

This is implicated in autogynephilia. It was not described as such by Blanchard, but its presence is consistent with observation. AGP subjects may loathe their own masculinity (Moser, Blanchard) to the point that they may seek GRS to remove their external male genitalia. This is consistent with MEF. It is possible that MEF is identical to ‘gender dysphoria’, at least in males.

Gender Dysphoria.

A putative diagnosis of transsexualism, it purports to describe a sense of ‘anxiety and discomfort’ with one’s sex-conforming gender expression. This has never been actually measured in any meaningful way.

Gender Identity

Non-existent. This is a canard that suggests that one’s ‘sense of gender’ is innate, internal and immutable. It is perhaps best described as ‘feeling like a woman’ for a transwoman. However, as Mike Bailey pointed out, how would a middle-aged man know what it was like to ‘feel like a woman’? Gender proceeds from sexuality, not airy-fairy notions of ‘identity.’

Gender Expression

The clothes and mannerisms associated with a particular gender, either masculine or feminine. Gender by any other name.

Sexual Orientation and Gender Expression and Identity (SOGIE)

An entirely specious attempt to suggest that sexual orientation (‘whom one wishes to go to bed with’) and gender (‘whom one wishes to go to bed as’) are divorced. They are not. This is a meaningless by-product of hidebound USican attitudes towards sex. It came about because gay activists wished to separate the desire to be penetrated from the fact that this is a feminine sexual desire and has since spread. It’s nonsense. Gender and sexuality are two sides of the same coin.

Autogynephilia (AGP)

Perhaps the most complex of all, this condition causes a man to be sexually aroused by the ‘thought or image of himself as a woman’. This is a form of paraphilia or sexual fetish. It comes in a plethora of forms. Central to all, however, is the sexualised attraction to ‘being a woman’, which, in this matter, means ‘being emasculated’. This is an invasive, self-propagating condition that is usually (but not always) fuelled by masturbation.

In the Western AGP profile, the subject may continue to live as a man, with regular ‘dressing’ masturbation sessions. Typically he will have a wardrobe of women’s clothing for this. He may indulge his fetish with other like-minded individuals at masturbatory ‘dressing parties’. In severe cases, a secondary, pseudo-feminine personality is created which after years — possibly decades — can completely overwhelm the host personality and destroy it. This is when these men usually decide to ‘transition’.

These men retain a masculine attraction to women and may attempt to insist to their wives that they are now ‘lesbians’. They predate on women and are particularly dangerous for transsexuals, to whom they may appear as ‘mentors’. However, the slightest deviation from the AGP’s instructions will be met with devastating opposition.

Transvestite autogynephilia, in which the subject appears in women’s clothing part or full time, was first described by Ray Blanchard in the 1980s and this work remains the basis of the science. Blanchard’s sample was, on average, middle aged, not at all feminine (rather the opposite) usually married, had children, was attracted to women principally and had no history of homosexual attraction or of GNC in childhood. All, however, had some history of dressing up in women’s clothes to masturbate.

Other AGP Profiles

Blanchard’s AGP profile, however, is not the only one. There appear to be at least two variants. In Asia, while the Western Profile does appear, it is relatively rare; another form is much more common. This differs from the Western profile in that: the age of appearance is much lower; subjects typically self-medicate with hormones (usually contraceptives) from their teens; as a result of this they may be strikingly beautiful, tall, lithe women very much of the ‘supermodel’ look; and they are much more likely to be androphilic (attracted to men) than the Western profile.

It is not clear whether this profile is completely distinct from the Blanchard or is simply exhibiting cultural influences, notably the attraction to men. If this is a cultural influence, then that either means that homosexuality can be learned, or it is an innate part of masculinity that most men suppress. Autogynephiles raise interesting questions about our assumptions about human sexuality.

AGPs are also appearing in Western Snowflake Culture. Here they look very much like a younger version of Blanchard’s model. They are not feminine, indeed are masculine, are attracted to women and share the other characteristics of the Blanchard profile. They seem to be appearing in their early 20s, which much younger than the classic Blanchard.

Non-transvestite autogynephilia.
Here, the emasculation fetish that is a central part of AGP is satisfied in ways other than wearing women’s clothing. It may simply come from being called by feminine pronouns or even one of an array of invented ones; by changing one’s name and other people using it; by sexual penetration, or by other means.

Homosexual autogynephilia.
It has been noted for decades that a similar dichotomy exists amongst homosexual men to that amongst transwomen. Some are small, slight, pretty and extremely feminine and others are large, normal weight, and not feminine, rather masculine. The existence of non-transvestite autogynephilia suggests that many if not all of these men might be autogynephiles getting their emasculation fetish satisfied through being anally penetrated.

We already know that a proportion of transvestite autogynephiles exhibit ‘pseudo-bisexualism’ in which they seek to be penetrated by men to complete their emasculation fetish. Is it possible that ‘masculine’ gays are just non-trans autogynephiles doing the same thing? It would certainly explain a lot about gay culture in the West if this were the case.

Autogynephilia is the most complex and fascinating expression of GNC.  Unfortunately, typical Western profile AGPs are  arrogant, offensive, bullying and obnoxious. Bruce ‘Caitlyn’ Jenner would be an example.

Snowflake Genders

There is a huge number of other ‘gender’ types that have been invented in recent years, but these are all fake. The plethora of ‘genders’ adopted by Snowflake Culture are actually rather moods and social roles than anything that might fairly be described as ‘gender’.

This is predictable if we apply the gender breakdown developed by Prof Don Kulick (an actual scientist) as part of his studies in Brazil. He classified gender in the culture he was observing as being ‘men’ and ‘not-men’ (rather than men and women.) I have observed the same dichotomy in Asia.

If we apply this model to Snowflake Culture we find that it is so emasculated as to only consist of persons conforming to the ‘not-men’ categorisation. All of the ‘men’ — powerful alpha-males — have been excluded or emasculated.

Within Snowflake Culture then, we see just one gender group, ‘not-men’. This group shows huge variation and this is the root cause of the Snowflake ‘gender rainbow’. However they are actually all expressions of not-men gender.

Within Snowflake culture, the highest status is afforded to lesbian women, especially blacks and other ethnic minorities. In order to fill the gap left by the banished ‘men’ group, some of these women ‘become’ men for social reasons. This puts them at the top of the pecking order. At the same time, real males emasculate themselves to the point of appearing to be women (almost). This is partly in order to gain status which they are disbarred, as men, from gaining, and partly in order to appear to be suitable sexual partners for the high-status lesbian ‘transmen’ ruling the group. Youtuber Justin ‘Riley’ Dennis would be a grand example.

‘Gender Fluid’

I am deeply indebted to the riotously funny http://genderfluidsupport.tumblr.com/gender/ blog for the following ‘Master Gender List’. Its terminal stupidity is perhaps best revealed by the fact that the only two genders that actually do exist, masculine and feminine, appear nowhere on it! The chuckleheads who produced this say:

‘Feel free to mix and match your own prefixes and suffixes to create the identity that best describes you.’

In other words, this nonsense has nothing to do with observable reality at all; it’s just about ‘d feelz’. Perhaps the most priceless piece of undiluted idiocy on this list is the following:

Anongender: a gender that is unknown to both yourself and others

So I’m wondering how one can ‘identify’ as a gender that nobody, including yourself, can identify?

And please, if you meet any adult who ‘identifies as’ a child or ‘a member of another species’ do find a shovel and hit it, hard.

(I am assured that this nonsense is not a hoax or a spoof, much though I wish it were; however, if anyone has evidence that it is, please do contact me.

Any of the following would better be described under the umbrella term ‘Fucking idiot.’)

 

Abimegender: a gender that is profound, deep, and infinite; meant to resemble when one mirror is reflecting into another mirror creating an infinite paradox
Adamasgender: a gender which refuses to be categorized
Aerogender: a gender that is influenced by your surroundings
Aesthetigender: a gender that is derived from an aesthetic; also known as videgender
Affectugender: a gender that is affected by mood swings
Agender: the feeling of no gender/absence of gender or neutral gender
Agenderflux: being mostly agender except having small shifts towards other genders making them demigenders (because of the constancy of being agender)
Alexigender: a gender that is fluid between more than one gender but the individual cannot tell what those genders are
Aliusgender: a gender which is removed from common gender descriptors and guidelines
Amaregender: a gender that changes depending on who you’re in love with
Ambigender: defined as having the feeling of two genders simultaneously without fluctuation; meant to reflect the concept of being ambidextrous, only with gender
Ambonec: identifying as both man and woman, yet neither at the same time
Amicagender: a gender that changes depending on which friend you’re with
Androgyne: sometimes used in the case of “androgynous presentation”; describes the feeling of being a mix of both masculine and feminine (and sometimes neutral) gender qualities
Anesigender: feeling like a certain gender yet being more comfortable identifying with another
Angenital: a desire to be without primary sexual characteristics, without necessarily being genderless; one may be both angenital and identify as any other gender alongside
Anogender: a gender that fades in and out but always comes back to the same feeling
Anongender: a gender that is unknown to both yourself and others
Antegender: a protean gender which has the potential to be anything, but is formless and motionless, and therefore, does not manifest as any particular gender
Anxiegender: a gender that is affected by anxiety
Apagender: a feeling of apathy towards ones gender which leads to them not looking any further into it
Apconsugender: a gender where you know what it isn’t, but not what it is; the gender is hiding itself from you
Astergender: a gender that feels bright and celestial
Astralgender: a gender that feels connected to space
(POSSIBLE TRIGGER WARNING) Autigender: a gender that can only be understood in the context of being autistic
Autogender: a gender experience that is deeply personal to oneself
Axigender: when a person experiences two genders that sit on opposite ends of an axis; one being agender and the other being any other gender; these genders are experienced one at a time with no overlapping and with very short transition time.
Bigender: the feeling of having two genders either at the same time or separately; usually used to describe feeling “traditionally male” and “traditionally female”, but does not have to
Biogender: a gender that feels connected to nature in some way
Blurgender: the feeling of having more than one gender that are somehow blurred together to the point of not being able to distinguish or identify individual genders; synonymous with genderfuzz
Boyflux: when one feels mostly or all male most of the time but experience fluctuating intensity of male identity
Burstgender: and gender that comes in intense bursts of feeling and quickly fades back to the original state
Caelgender: a gender which shares qualities with outer space or has the aesthetic of space, stars, nebulas, etc.
Cassgender: the feeling of gender is unimportant to you
Cassflux: when the level of indifference towards your gender fluctuates
Cavusgender: for people with depression; when you feel one gender when not depressed and another when depressed
Cendgender: when your gender changes between one and its opposite
Ceterofluid: when you are ceterogender and your feelings fluctuate between masculine, feminine, and neutral
Ceterogender: a nonbinary gender with specific masculine, feminine, or neutral feelings
Cisgender: the feeling of being the gender you were assigned at birth, all the time (assigned (fe)male/feeling (fe)male)
Cloudgender: a gender that cannot be fully realized or seen clearly due to depersonalization/derealization disorder
Collgender: the feeling of having too many genders simultaneously to describe each one
Colorgender: a gender associated with one or more colors and the feelings, hues, emotions, and/or objects associated with that color; may be used like pinkgender, bluegender, yellowgender
Commogender: when you know you aren’t cisgender, but you settled with your assigned gender for the time being
Condigender: a gender that is only felt during certain circumstances
Deliciagender: from the Latin word delicia meaning “favorite”, meaning the feeling of having more than one simultaneous gender yet preferring one that fits better
Demifluid: the feeling your gender being fluid throughout all the demigenders; the feeling of having multiple genders, some static and some fluid
Demiflux: the feeling of having multiple genders, some static and some fluctuating
Demigender: a gender that is partially one gender and partially another
Domgender: having more than one gender yet one being more dominant than the others
Demi-vapor (term coined by @cotton-blossom-jellyfish): Continuously drifting to other genders, feeling spiritually transcendental when doing so while having a clear -slightly blurred- inner visual of your genders, transitions, and positive emotions. Tied to Demi-Smoke.
Demi-smoke (term coined by @cotton-blossom-jellyfish): A transcendental, spiritual gender roughly drifting to other genders that are unable to be foreseen and understood, shrouded in darkness within your inner visual. Elevating through mystery. Caused by a lack of inner interpretation and dark emotional states. Tied to Demi-Vapor.
Duragender: from the Latin word dura meaning “long-lasting”, meaning a subcategory of multigender in which one gender is more identifiable, long lasting, and prominent than the other genders
Egogender: a gender that is so personal to your experience that it can only be described as “you”
Epicene: sometimes used synonymously with the adjective “androgynous”; the feeling either having or not displaying characteristics of both or either binary gender; sometimes used to describe feminine male identifying individuals
Espigender: a gender that is related to being a spirit or exists on a higher or extradimensional plane
Exgender: the outright refusal to accept or identify in, on, or around the gender spectrum
Existigender: a gender that only exists or feels present when thought about or when a conscious effort is made to notice it
Femfluid: having fluctuating or fluid gender feelings that are limited to feminine genders
Femgender: a nonbinary gender which is feminine in nature
Fluidflux: the feeling of being fluid between two or more genders that also fluctuate in intensity; a combination of genderfluid and genderflux
Gemigender: having two opposite genders that work together, being fluid and flux together
Genderblank: a gender that can only be described as a blank space; when gender is called into question, all that comes to mind is a blank space
Genderflow: a gender that is fluid between infinite feelings
Genderfluid: the feeling of fluidity within your gender identity; feeling a different gender as time passes or as situations change; not restricted to any number of genders
Genderflux: the feeling of your gender fluctuating in intensity; like genderfluid but between one gender and agender
Genderfuzz: coined by lolzmelmel; the feeling of having more than one gender that are somehow blurred together to the point of not being able to distinguish or identify individual genders; synonymous with blurgender
Gender Neutral: the feeling of having a neutral gender, whether somewhere in between masculine and feminine or a third gender that is separate from the binary; often paired with neutrois
Genderpunk: a gender identity that actively resists gender norms
Genderqueer: originally used as an umbrella term for nonbinary individuals; may be used as an identity; describes a nonbinary gender regardless of whether the individual is masculine or feminine leaning
Genderwitched: a gender in which one is intrigued or entranced by the idea of a particular gender, but is not certain that they are actually feeling it
Girlflux: when one feels mostly or all female most of the time but experiences fluctuating intensities of female identity
Glassgender: a gender that is very sensitive and fragile
Glimragender: a faintly shining, wavering gender
Greygender: having a gender that is mostly outside of the binary but is weak and can barely be felt
Gyragender: having multiple genders but understanding none of them
Healgender: a gender that once realized, brings lots of peace, clarity, security, and creativity to the individual’s mind
Heliogender: a gender that is warm and burning
Hemigender: a gender that is half one gender and half something else; one or both halves may be identifiable genders
Horogender: a gender that changes over time with the core feeling remaining the same
Hydrogender: a gender which shares qualities with water
Imperigender: a fluid gender that can be controlled by the individual
Intergender: the feeling of gender falling somewhere on the spectrum between masculine and feminine; note: do not confuse with intersex
Juxera: a feminine gender similar to girl, but on a separate plane and off to itself
Libragender: a gender that feels agender but has a strong connection to another gender
Magigender: a gender that is mostly gender and the rest is something else
Mascfluid: A gender that is fluid in nature, and restricted only to masculine genders
Mascgender: a non-binary gender which is masculine in nature.
Maverique: taken from the word maverick; the feeling of having a gender that is separate from masculinity, femininity, and neutrality, but is not agender; a form of third gender
Mirrorgender: a gender that changes to fit the people around you
Molligender: a gender that is soft, subtle, and subdued
Multigender: the feeling of having more than one simultaneous or fluctuating gender; simultaneous with multigenderand omnigender
Nanogender: feeling a small part of one gender with the rest being something else
Neutrois: the feeling of having a neutral gender; sometimes a lack of gender that leads to feeling neutral
Nonbinary: originally an umbrella term for any gender outside the binary of cisgenders; may be used as an individual identity; occasionally used alongside of genderqueer
Omnigender: the feeling of having more than one simultaneous or fluctuating gender; simultaneous with multigenderand polygender
Oneirogender: coined by anonymous, “being agender, but having recurring fantasies or daydreams of being a certain gender without the dysphoria or desire to actually be that gender day-to-day”
Pangender: the feeling of having every gender; this is considered problematic by some communities and thus has been used as the concept of relating in some way to all genders as opposed to containing every gender identity; only applies to genders within one’s own culture
Paragender: the feeling very near one gender and partially something else which keeps you from feeling fully that gender
Perigender: identifying with a gender but not as a gender
Polygender: the feeling of having more than one simultaneous or fluctuating gender; simultaneous with multigenderand omnigender
Proxvir: a masculine gender similar to boy, but on a separate plane and off to itself
Quoigender: feeling as if the concept of gender is inapplicable or nonsensical to one’s self
Subgender: mostly agender with a bit of another gender
Surgender: having a gender that is 100% one gender but with more of another gender added on top of that
Systemgender: a gender that is the sum of all the genders within a multiple or median system
Tragender: a gender that stretches over the whole spectrum of genders
Transgender: any gender identity that transcends or does not align with your assigned gender or society’s idea of gender; the feeling of being any gender that does not match your assigned gender
Trigender: the feeling of having three simultaneous or fluctuating genders
Vapogender: a gender that sort of feels like smoke; can be seen on a shallow level but once you go deeper, it disappears and you are left with no gender and only tiny wisps of what you thought it was
Venngender: when two genders overlap creating an entirely new gender; like a venn diagram
Verangender: a gender that seems to shift/change the moment it is identified
Vibragender: a gender that is usually one stable gender but will occasionally changes or fluctuate before stabilizing again
Vocigender: a gender that is weak or hollow

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4 thoughts on “Sexual terminology: what you should know.”

    1. Thank you.

      As regards sex and sexuality, of which gender is a part, I don’t present arguments. I only present the facts as stated in the peer-reviewed scientific literature, which it is clear you have not read, and the results of my own observations, mainly in Asia but also in Europe and South America. These confirm the following: Ray Blanchard was right in all of his major premises; gender is partly innate, which element is driven by birth sex, but largely sexual and social; there is no such thing as ‘gender identity’; there is no equivalent to AGP in females, so transmen, insofar as they exist, are broadly equivalent to transsexuals (Blanchard HSTS) meaning that they are a class of homosexual women, as transsexuals are a class of homosexual males; that all of these phenomena are subject to huge variation as a result of cultural influence.

      I have made comment about the abusive nature of ‘gender neutral’ parenting and against ‘gaslighting’ children into believing they are trans. I also argue that the so-called ‘gender binary’ is an innate and essential part of the human condition and it cannot be dispensed with.

      Thank you for informing me as to the etymology of my surname. Gosh I would never have thunk it.

    1. No. Apart from a tiny number (<1:20000) of CAIS and ADH people, (who are male but are born with vaginas) and other rare intersex conditions, physical sex can easily be determined by birth genitalia. While true transsexuals, that is, highly feminine homosexual males, have a gender that is not in accordance with their sex, this is a result of their sexual desire for men.

      Genital Reconstruction Surgery (GRS) is a dangerous practice that provides no benefit. Even true transsexuals would in most case be better to retain their penises and live as women, using testosterone blockers, hormones and other forms of cosmetic surgery to enhance their femininity and support their gender. I know many post-operative transsexuals (again, not transvestite autogynephiles, who are mentally ill) who have undergone this unnecessary procedure and not one has had her life improved by it. Those who have long-term partners would be with those men anyway, and those who are living with their past concealed -- one day it will all be discovered and their lives will be ruined.

      GRS exists and remains legal because of widespread failure to understand what Gender non-Conformity (GNC) actually is. There is no such thing as 'gender identity'. Gender is innate for most of us and where it differs from norm, this is because of sex drive. Gender is not a social construct, as the deliberate lie of feminists and New Gay Men would have us think; it is an innate part of being human and has evolutionary roots. In fact, without it, we would probably have gone extinct.

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