Transmen are not real men. It has nothing to do with eating quiche, either.
We’ve spent a lot of time on this blog discussing transwomen (it’s one word, by the way, not two.) But as yet, I’ve said very little about transmen. (Again, one word.) Essentially, transmen don’t exist. They are in fact lesbians with a social desire to appear as men. In the classic profile, this was consistent with their sexuality: to attract female partners, they wish to appear to be men. However, this is a social impulse rather than a sexual one.
There is no equivalent amongst females to the transsexual who is, let us state again, a person born male who is attracted to men from childhood and is naturally extremely feminine in every way — so much so that they can never be successful men and are better off transitioning.
The key to understanding this difference is to realise that males can perform in either the male or the female role in sex. That is, they can either penetrate or be penetrated. Transsexuals are fully psycho-sexually and socially inverted: they have brains like women (Rametti et al), they have bodies like women, they have sexual desires like women and they desire to be treated as women in sex — to be penetrated.
So we can show that so-called ‘gender identity’ in transsexuals is a function of sex drive, and this is essentially an inverted male one. This causes a desire for sexual relations with men. A transsexual is always naturally submissive socially — her physique is such that she cannot hope to compete with males. Even if she desired to have female partners, which she doesn’t, this would be a fruitless pursuit for her, because women are attracted to men, by which we mean alpha-males. So a transsexual melds the sexual and social components together to create a persona that is at once sexually submissive and attractive to male partners. (Note: there is significant emasculation desire in this profile but it is principally rewarded through penetration.)
The above explains why transsexualism is more apparent in so-called ‘macho’ societies, where masculine competition, rewarded by sex with females, is most intense. Transsexuals, simply, can have more rewarding sex lives if they turn themselves into sexually attractive women. They cannot hope to attract the kind of men they desire — heterosexual alpha-males — as boys. Such men are immediately ruled out of the competition for sex with women if they are known to have sex with other males.
However, this neat solution only works because the transsexual has a way to simulate a woman’s role in sex: she uses her anus. Most will simply not penetrate men, although this may change if money is involved. Many transsexuals will try to pass themselves off as ‘real girls’ and if their own anecdotes are true, this actually can be done. However this author suspects that the men involved were more than a little complicit in their own ‘deception’.
A female has no penis, surprisingly
Our ‘transman’ is totally incapable of fulfilling the reverse of this sexual role, because she is a female and so has no penis. You need a penis to penetrate; this is how the word comes into being. Transmen cannot be ‘men’ in the way that transsexuals can be women — in bed. Further, there is no distinctive morphology or brain difference.
Remember, our transsexual is not just attracted to men from childhood; she is also, on average, smaller, more lightly built and more neotenous (pretty) than the men in her ethnic group. Transmen are physically no different from any other females.
The other group of ‘transwomen’ that has been thoroughly researched as that of transvestite autogynephiles. Essentially, these are males who find that their masturbatory satisfaction is more intense when they are dressed as women. They are essentially fetishistic cross dressers who ‘fall in love’ with the woman they invent, by cross-dressing and other means. Eventually, rewarded by repeated intense masturbation sessions, this behaviour becomes delusional and the man begins to believe that he ‘really is a ‘real’ woman’ . This is nonsense, of course, and the delusion causes massive damage both to women and transsexuals.
Masochistic emasculation fetish
However, at the heart of it is a masochistic emasculation fetish. These men consider women to be inferior and in emasculating themselves they reward their masochism.
Transvestite autogynephiles are just men in frocks and their bullying, misogynistic, woman-erasing behaviour is scandalous. Worse, they are quintessentially misogynistic. At the root of their behaviour, as with other forms of masochistic emasculation, is a shame at being men. Perhaps they grew up in a religious environment where boys were considered dirty and nasty and masturbation was an act of evil. Perhaps they were intimidated by the people around them into hating their male bodies. There are many stimuli for masochistic fetishes. What they have in common is an absolute obsession with the self, and one’s own sexual satisfaction.
In autogynephilia this sexual satisfaction comes from appearing as a woman while masturbating, but may also include going out in public and being ‘mistaken’ for a woman or group masturbation sessions ‘en femme’ or dressed as women. These may also involve penetrative sex, in which one partner plays the role of man while the other of woman.
So are our transmen of this group?
No. Blanchard could find no evidence whatsoever that there is a ‘female equivalent’ to autogynephilia, and this is consistent with other researchers. All those who claim that there is, actually are using sleight of hand; they are academically and scientifically disingenuous.
Autogynephilia is ‘a man’s propensity to be sexually aroused at the thought or image of himself as a woman.’ Even if, by a little equivocation, we might show that just being a woman causes some women to be sexually aroused, that is not a female equivalent of autogynephilia.
If there were a female equivalent, it would have to be ‘a woman’s propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought or image of herself as a man,’ and that would be autoandrophilia. No convincing research has ever suggested that this exists. Women do not cream themselves if they put on a baggy pair of jeans and a t-shirt or get a shrt haircut.
Gender is not constructed
This is fascinating because it busts two myths in one go: that gender is constructed and that sex and gender are not associated.
Sex drive is not a part of gender; it is a precursor to gender. Transsexuals look like women because they want to be fucked by men, just like all the other girls in their culture, so they adopt the manners and dress of those girls in order to compete. Once in bed, they accommodate men’s penetrative desire through oral and anal sex.
So gender is a direct consequence of sex drive, which in males can lead to transsexualism, and will do so if it is socially enabled.
However, women’s sex drive is not the same as men’s. This should be axiomatic, but is has been obscured for political reasons. Men and women are not the same. We are different. Not better or worse, but different, and we have different sex drives. Men seek to penetrate and women to be penetrated. This is a direct consequence of the physical nature of their sex organs. Transsexuals can transform their anuses into primary sex organs; as males they have both organs of penetration and organs that can be penetrated.
Females do not have organs of penetration; they can only be penetrated. It’s that simple. So how can it be that some women appear to desire to ‘become men’? The answer is not sex drive: they cannot penetrate. Lesbians may use toys and other devices to simulate penetration but they can never ‘become men’ in sex — or at least, not without complex and largely ineffectual surgery.
In fact, what we are seeing is a consequence of the adoption of the ‘two-group’ model, or a bastardised version of it, amongst certain groups in Western culture. I’ll call it ‘snowflake culture’. It is one half of a traditional two-group culture, which we have discussed elsewhere, with all the men taken out. Those left are emasculated ‘beta-males’ in various forms. Interestingly, transsexuals have little or nothing to do with this group, because they actually are, psycho-sexually, women; they like men.
Snowflake culture is animated principally by misandry, the hatred of men, and specifically, white men. Women are the top dogs. It is a matriarchy seen through a glass darkly. Within it, some women seek to become alpha males in order to replace the real males the culture has removed.
Playing the role of men
These are transmen: women who seek to play the role of men within a culture in which real men have been disallowed and any remaining men completely emasculated. They are usually lesbian although some are not. As we have seen, women’s sexuality is much different from men’s. It greatly revolves around other women and the social hierarchy of women within the ‘not-men’ group.
‘Transmen’ are women who try to arrogate to themselves what they see as ‘privileges’ that men have in the broader culture. However, these ‘privileges’ are illusory and they come at great cost. Men’s behaviour is minutely policed at all times for signs that they might not actually be a part of the ‘men’ group. They are expected to do the most dangerous and onerous tasks in the society. They are expected to be providers and defenders.
The consequences are drastic. Men live, on average, ten years less than women and they have relatively worse health. They are much more prone to successful suicides. (Though women excel at attention-seeking fake ones that sometimes, tragically, go wrong and they do actually kill themselves.)
Only males can be men and only females can be women.
Transsexuals are a special case that only occurs amongst males, and has been recorded for thousands of years. It appears across all cultures. So-called transmen, today, are actually females who seek the status of men in the broader society; but they don’t pay the price that men do for it.
Transmen are, literally, lesbians on steroids.